Back in Mrs. Edgell’s second-grade class, we had math races. It was a test to see who could do the page of addition or subtraction problems the fastest AND get them all correct. There were five of us in class that I remember being in the top time and time again: Samie, David, Darren, Sherry, and me. It was many years ago, so who knows what reality was but this is my memory. Mrs. Edgell gave us first, second, and third-place ribbon stickers on the top of the pages. I loved these because I was at the top of the class on these tests. I feel a little bad for those who never won one. But in addition to these tests, we often had the foil star stickers put at the top of the page when we did well on our school work. I was motivated by the stickers! Give me the gold star! I also love to hear “good job” or “way to go” or any words of praise. It is embarrassing to say this motivates me, but it does. Getting those extrinsic rewards encourages me every time!
I am wired to need positive reinforcement. In the writing world, there aren’t that many “gold stars” given out in the form of writing awards. I wasn’t expecting that with this book, but it has been nice to hear some positive feedback about Seeking the Silver Lining. The reviews have been coming in SLOWLY, but they are all positive so far. To foster my continued writing, I need that little boost of confidence that I am doing something worthwhile. It is nice to hear that the time and effort I put into writing and editing is blessing the people who read it. Because I need to hear praise to stay motivated, I will take all of the gold stickers in the form of reviews. If you have read my book, can you please review it on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and/or Goodreads? It doesn’t have to be lengthy or detailed, say what you liked about the book or simply “enjoyed this book .” Knowing what you think of my book will do my heart a world of good and keep me motivated to write books two and three.
Thanks to all who have read and given me “gold” stars on my reviews! I truly appreciate you giving me this proverbial pat on the back.
